Love Breeds Conflict
Is love the driving force behind conflict between family members? In my life, the people that I have fought with the most, yelled at the most, and gotten annoyed by the most are my family. Yet, they are an integral part of my life and we all love each other very much. While love between family members is seen as a positive thing, the intensity of love breeds conflict and may have negative effects on family members and those around them. Growing up, I always wondered why my parents would lecture and even yell at me about getting good grades in school even in elementary school. I would hate listening to them tell me to focus on academics. If my parents loved me so much, why would they yell at me? In the memoir Crying in H-mart, by Michelle Zauner, Michelle had many conflicts with her mother about her future career and her academics. They constantly argued about college and her music career. While these arguments got heated and sometimes got violent, it was clear that her mothe...